Did He Really Just Say That

One of the most awkward feelings in the world is having a joke fall flat.

It's even worse if you think you're on a roll.

Joke #1: Laughter

Joke #2: More laughter

Joke #3:

Dave Chappelle optional.

When you use humor, you're really putting yourself out there. Some people get it, some people don't. Sometimes you're genuinely not funny at all. It happens.  It's a lot like telling a personal story, or talking about your feelings, or even expressing your political or religious views in public. It really exposes your heart. It gets down to the core of who you are. And if that doesn't resonate with people, you know almost right away.

So, there's two options, knowing that you will inevitably fail:

Option #1: Clam up, don't speak unless you are in a comfortable environment.

Option #2: Put yourself out there anyway, despite your inevitable failure.

One of these options is for cowards. The other is harder to choose, but definitely the better of the two. If you hit the right note with someone, it's one of the best feelings in the world. Absolutely worth risking an awkward moment or two. Or six.